Attitude always overrides!

I usually observe many people around me, trying to speak English or any other language, also effortlessly and proudly incorporating dis words in it. They feel as if it the sign of modernism. Honestly i don’t understand what is the logic behind it!!

So writing this post to share my views on today’s modern trend!!

I believe that languages don’t act much role in building relationships. Rather i can say the way of speaking any language matters alot.

Many of the times we all have heard or read many abusive words. I used to think that why people use these words to express their thoughts, rather they can express themselves in other way also.

Using the dis words can straight away hurt or humiliate anyone, it is a short cut option, which many follows. But it should be admitted as well that it is not a solution..

Using such absurd words can calm down your grudge, but at the same time can create a wrong perception of you in front of many. And you better know that you are a social animal!

Using the inappropriate words can lead to the creation of negative attitude. Once attempted to use will become your routine. One must always remember that character is very important to maintain.

That’s why i used to say:

Language means nothing, but attitude does, because it will decide your way of thinking and of course, your way of speaking your language.


  1. aquibviewJuly 26, 2017

    I agree with you prenika, dissing or abusing someone just show their cheap mentality, and they get habituated with it eventually .

    1. prenikaJuly 26, 2017

      U r right ๐Ÿ‘

  2. MeetJuly 26, 2017

    Nicely conveyed ๐Ÿ™‚ that’s the reason why “I hate you” in a mischievous & playful manner is much appealing than saying “I love you” with a gloomy, sullen face ๐Ÿ˜€

    1. prenikaJuly 26, 2017

      Hehe.. What a great example!! ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ‘
      I like that!!

  3. Blue SettiaJuly 26, 2017

    Great post. Sometimes we say something we don’t mean and it can result in feelings of remorse or pain. Our words can be interpreted in so many ways. It’s really all about perception. However, just like you said, attitude is much easier to understand as it can communicate all sorts of emotions. Someone can easily say “Shut up” but it depends on the attitude when they say it. Right? Excellent topic!

    1. prenikaJuly 26, 2017

      Thanku dear!
      You are right. The most difficult thing in this world is to interpret right words at right time.

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